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Saturday, November 21, 2020

Bullying Resolution: Help for Parents

This Bullying Resolution page provides parents with insight to assist them in achieving an effective resolution of the more serious or chronic situations where their child is being repeatedly bullied or harassed. This service is for residents in Oregon. However, the information will be relevant in other states. 

http://www.embracecivility.org/resolution/

Wednesday, October 14, 2020

Be Internet Awesome by Google


To make the most of the Internet, kids need to be prepared to make smart decisions. Be Internet Awesome teaches kids the fundamentals of digital citizenship and safety so they can explore the online world with confidence.


Thursday, October 8, 2020

Tween Cyberbullying in the United States

 Tween Cyberbullying

We have been exploring how young people use and misuse technology, with a primary focus on cyberbullying, for nearly two decades. In that time, though, we have almost exclusively studied middle and high school students (12- to 17-year-olds) and their caregivers. Earlier this year we were approached by the Cartoon Network with questions about tween experiences with cyberbullying. We knew we didn’t have any data on tween cyberbullying, and a quick search didn’t turn up any other research on this particular population. So, with support from the AT&T Foundation, we partnered with Cartoon Network to fill this important gap in knowledge. In June and July of this year we surveyed a nationally-representative sample of 1,034 tweens (9-12-year-olds) to find out more about their experiences with cyberbullying. Below is a brief overview of some of the key findings.

Read more: https://cyberbullying.org/tween-cyberbullying-in-the-united-states

Thursday, October 1, 2020

New! Solution-Focused School Counseling: The Missing Manual

 

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What would a more comprehensive, practical, and customized solution-focused brief counseling (SFBC) book look like for school counselors if it were available today? Solution-Focused School Counseling: The Missing Manual is what I pictured when I imagined the answer to that hypothetical question.

Although helpful to other professionals such as social workers, school psychologists, clinical mental health counselors, and couples counselors, this book was written just for you, the school counselor.

After reading Solution-Focused School Counseling: The Missing Manual, you will have a clearer understanding of the ins and outs of the SFBC approach. You’ll be better able to picture how the model works across different parts of your job, with all kids, and among various issues. You will also be better equipped to navigate the common sticking points that some counselors experience.

First, you will learn about the principles, guidelines, and techniques of solution-focused brief counseling. Then, you will discover practical ways you can use the SFBC model in different areas such as:

  • Advising & Career Counseling
  • Classroom Lessons
  • Conflict Resolution
  • Individual Counseling
  • Leadership
  • Parent Conferences
  • Peer Helping
  • Play Counseling
  • Program Development
  • Small Group Counseling
  • Supervision
  • Teacher Consultation and Support

You’ll also learn how to collect solution-focused data, adapt teaching activities for the classroom, and integrate SFBC with other approaches such as rational-emotive behavior therapy, reality therapy, and behavior modification. The Missing Manual also includes several authentic transcripts that demonstrate the methods in different situations. From understanding solution-focused brief counseling to applying it throughout your program, this book gives you detailed information to get yourself to the next level.

Both in-service practitioners and pre-service graduate students will find Solution-Focused School Counseling: The Missing Manual an excellent resource for becoming a solution-focused school counselor.

Russell A. Sabella, Ph.D.
Sabella@SchoolCounselor.com
http://www.schoolcounselor.com 

Visit the website to view the Table of Contents and to purchase your copy today!
https://schoolcounselor.com/themissingmanual

 
 

Tuesday, September 1, 2020

Being Solution-Focused is More Important than Ever

 


School counselors, teachers, and other educators need an approach to working with children remotely that comes with low-risk and high positive impact. The Solution-focused brief counseling (SFBC), consultation, and conferences approach is perfect for the job. SFBC empowers kids and caretakers to navigate the intense and unpleasant challenges we all face while unlocking their past achievements and discovering their future potential.

The SFBC approach is perfect for working with others online, even addressing social and emotional issues, for several reasons:

  • SFBC is Low Risk. Because of SFBC's focus on strengths, resources, and opportunities, the model reduces the importance of confidentiality and privacy. Students, parents, and others are more apt to speak freely, even in an online environment.
  • SFBC is Structured. Students and school counselors both love how SFBC is structured, focusing on techniques that are simple and easy to follow.
  • SFBC Works. Focusing on students’ assets almost always produces some return on your investment. SFBC is an approach that can help students enhance their confidence, believe in their abilities, and do more of what works.
  • SFBC is Brief. Being in an online environment is tiring. We need an approach like SFBC to help us get our work done efficiently.
  • SFBC is Adaptable. School counselors and other educators can apply SFBC in many different situations. For example, school counselors deal with numerous cases across various domains, including academic, career, social, and emotional.
  • SFBC is Transcultural. The SFBC model embraces diversity because the focus is on the student’s unique experiences within their own frame of reference.
  • SFBC is Teachable. The solution-focused model also lends itself well to online classroom lessons, where students can learn a novel approach to coping, self-regulating, and working out problems on their own. School counselors can bring the SFBC principles, techniques, and processes to students starting in elementary schools. Teaching students how to apply SFBC mindsets and behaviors in their own lives gives them the knowledge, skills, and attitude to navigate the world better, cope with adversity, and understand their own powers.

The virtual SFBC workshop can be delivered in various formats including a half-day (3 hours) or full-day (6 hours). We can connect all at once or space the workshop out over several meetings, whichever works best. If you want to do a full day and include two or more topics, we can make that happen.

SFBC Workshop Objectives:

  • Understand the process of solution-focused scaling. another photo of online learning
  • Recognize and understand techniques including detailing, mind mapping, mine fielding, cheerleading, amplifying, and possible reframing/refocusing.
  • Recognize and understand how to use the “hypothetical” or exploring future progress.
  • Understand four ways to move from complaints/wishes to SMART goals.
  • Understand a technique for how to inspire internal motivation.
  • Understand how to conduct solution-focused small groups. 
  • Understand how to team with all stakeholders (parents, students, and staff) using the solution-focused approach.

Check out Dr. Sabella's professional development page for other workshop options at https://schoolcounselor.com/professional-development/

To inquire about doing a SFBC or other workshop, complete this brief online form to get things started: https://schoolcounselor.com/professional-development/request-a-training/.

 
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Or, please forward this email to the person who coordinates professional developing for your district, agency, or organization.

Sabella & Associates, LLC
8249 Preserve Point DR, Fort Myers, FL 33912
sabella@schoolcounselor.com


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